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A Journey of Self-Discovery After An Accident

December 14, 2021 by Monica Nelson Leave a Comment

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 A severe injury can be a life-changing event. It can leave you feeling hopeless and alone. It’s not only physical pain that comes with an injury but also emotional pain. You may feel like regaining your confidence after an accident is impossible and that regaining yourself is out of the question, but it’s possible to find happiness in yourself again! 

Talk to your loved ones about it

Finding happiness after an injury is hard enough alone, but you should never feel like you can’t talk to someone about it. Whether it is to your spouse or your parents, regaining confidence and finding yourself again starts with talking things out. If something was bothering you before the accident, bring this up as well! Your loved ones are there for a reason, and they want to help however possible during these times. Let them provide support because sometimes all we need is knowing that people love us unconditionally.

Ask your doctor questions

Many people feel like they can’t ask their doctors any questions after an injury because they don’t want to seem “stupid.” However, your doctor is there to help you and answer any questions you may have, so regaining confidence in yourself can be a little bit easier. Not only will this allow you to understand what’s happening with your body, but it’ll also give you more information on how to move forward. If you are having any trouble with the healing process or if things aren’t going as planned, make sure you ask them questions! Some doctors allow their patients to contact them through email, while others have online websites for people to fill out forms of what they would like help on.

Focus on your health

After an injury, we can sometimes feel like our bodies aren’t capable of doing anything anymore- especially after taking some time off from work/school for recovery. However, focusing too much on how damaged you believe your body is could hurt regaining those confidence levels! You’re still human, and there’s no such thing as perfect, so regaining happiness shouldn’t focus on regaining your “perfect” body. If you feel like focusing on yourself is the best thing to do, focus more on regaining mental health. Having good support in legal matters from medical malpractice attorneys regarding your accident will also put your mind at ease.

Find yourself

To find yourself after an injury, you have to put yourself first. This means that you need to take some time for YOURSELF! Maybe this means taking a day off work or going on a weekend trip by yourself- do something that will make you happy. It’s important during these times that you don’t overload yourself with things and just focus on resting and regaining your energy back. Once you’ve taken the time for yourself, it’ll be easier to start focusing on other aspects of your life again.

Start small

It’s easy to feel overwhelmed when trying to regain confidence and find oneself again after an injury. It may seem impossible at first glance. But instead of trying to do everything at once, focus on regaining one thing at a time. Maybe that means regaining your energy back or even just getting out of the house more often, but you should focus only on gaining this “little” happiness right now. This will make it easier to recover and not overwhelm yourself with everything all at once!

In  Conclusion, regaining confidence and finding oneself again after an injury is possible! Just remember to take things one step at a time, focus on your health, and talk to your loved ones about how you’re feeling.


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